Wednesday, December 8, 2010
How to spot a married dater
I was chatting with a gentleman today who told me about his dating experience. He had dated a lady for 9 months before she came clean and told him that she was married. Nine months, yes. I don't know how she could pull that off .
This post is intended to give you some help on how to spot if the person your dating is 'really' single or if he /she has a wife or husband at home.
If he /she never answers your calls, but always makes a point of calling you back
If he /she carry more than one phone, and you have only a number for only one of the phones
if he /she makes a point when you meet to meet up in an area as far as possible from where they live
if he/she never calls you when they are actually at home but call you when they are in the car or at work,
If he /she switches the phone off when they are home
If he /she avoids appearing in a crowded public place with you
If he /she insists on having meals in restaurants with private cabins
if he /she always always puts you on hold to take a call waiting, but never answers you when they are on another call
If he /she doesn't call or meet up on weekends or public holidays
If he asks you not to wear make up when you meet up (just in case it smears his dishdasha or shirt)
If he/she disconnects the call abruptly in the middle of conversation and does not call you back right away